27-year-old man hosts his long-distance girlfriend for a week in his tiny room at his parent's house, 29-year-old girlfriend is afraid of bringing up moving to her cousin's house for the remaining days to be more comfortable: 'I feel so awkward'

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  • AITA for wanting to stay at my cousin’s house instead of my LDR boyfriend’s tiny family home?

    129(F) traveled to meet my long-distance boyfriend 27 (M). He currently lives with his family in a apartment where he has a very small room and a small bed.
  • Initially, I suggested staying for just a few days because I knew the living situation. I didn't want to be a burden to his parents, and honestly, staying at his family's place feels uncomfortable for me. I
  • suggested booking a place together for the 2 weeks, but he said no because he isn't working right now and wants to save money. When I
  • mentioned staying a shorter time, he got offended and said we've never stayed together for more than a week, begging me to stay the whole time.
  • So, I agreed. The problem is, I am incredibly uncomfortable. For example, the other day I woke up and he had already eaten. He asked if I
  • wanted to eat, I said yes, but he didn't offer anything or suggest what I could have. It's not my
  • house, so I don't feel comfortable just opening his parents' fridge and cooking something. I feel
  • a refrigerator with pictures of fruits and vegetables on it
  • so awkward that I'm even hesitant to say, "Hey, I'm going out to grab food." My cousin happens to live. in this exact same city. I
  • am seriously thinking about going to stay at her place so I can have some freedom and comfort, and we can still meet up every
  • day. However, I know if I tell him this, he is going to get offended and upset. AITA if I tell him I'm
  • uncomfortable and want to stay somewhere else? How do I even bring this up without ruining the trip?
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